A Little Holiday Laugh to Come Back too

So I'm going to try to get back on blogging and writing out my endless thoughts. For now all I got is this comic. Why? because it is that.



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Boy do I think way too much...

So where to begin here...

Everyday during the week, I leave work and I have that 25 minute car ride back to my apartment. It always seems to be the time when my mind just runs with ideas. So just for organization purposes let's actually try to map out the past week or so main themes.

- Trusting in something (for me it's the Lord)
- Making decisions/knowing yourself.
- Friends and Happiness.

- Trusting in something -

It seems like no matter what is going on in our lives that it's in our nature to wonder, worry, be hopeful, or scared about the future. I know I have experienced all these emotions at one point in my life when my mind ventured to the future. There are many quotes on this subject and many people have tried to calm our natural reaction to the subject.

- Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. (Matthew 6:34)

- Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life. (Steve Jobs: Founder of Apple Computers)

- I never think of the future. It comes soon enough. (Albert Einstein)

My thoughts are that you can try your hardest to make something happen. You could buy every lottery ticket but one. In life though, there are many things that are out of our control but you shouldn't worry about an outcome you cannot change. Nor should you feel bad about an undesired outcome when you put your all into it.

With life the end result is not what typically teaches you the lesson. It's the ride on the way to the end result. Steve Jobs was right that Hindsight is always 20/20. It's not the easiest thing to do but everyday I trust in the Lord that he'll connect my dots.

- Making decisions/knowing yourself -

This is a subject I often find dominates my thoughts. Everyone has heard the quotes about the most important relationship is the one with yourself...You can't be loved if you don't love yourself.

I can't say I disagree with those statements too much. The only way to be really happy is to follow your heart. Well the only way to know what your heart is saying is to get to know you. When faced with decisions in life people often sacrifice what they want for what others want of them. People believe that are truly loving the person if they act this way...

But how can you love someone else if you aren't loving yourself. To give love you must have love for you. Truly, the right decision for yourself is the one that doesn't sacrifice you. This doesn't mean be selfish but you must stand up for yourself or no one else will.

"If I am not myself then who will be me"

In the end the hardest part about making a decision should not be focused on how it will effect others but rather what it is you truly want and how that will effect you.

You alone control who and the extent others can effect you. Ultimately, God gave you the responsibility to make your own decisions.

- Friends and Happiness -

This summer has taught me a great deal about the value of friends. It has also taught me that like most things in life...friends come and go like the seasons. Friends are so important, in my opinion, because they give you someone to care for and give to while at the same time having someone to lean on and be there for you.

I've had a great summer because of friends. Friends make you smile and convince you to forget about all the things holding you down.

Happiness is a strange thing. It's usually found when you're not actively looking for it but at the same time it can be found by a decision to be happy. It's definitely not tangible but at the sametime can stem from tangible things.

Ultimate happiness though comes from within and from God. I think if you make up your mind that you are happy then you'll be happy. I know this sounds simple but next time you are down just smile and you instantly start to think things are better.

So yeah...I still think to much.

This is what I'm practicing on...

Proverbs 3:5-6

5Trust in the LORD with all your heart
And do not lean on your own understanding.
6In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He will make your paths straight.

I'm Still Alive and Still Kickin.

Well this past week has been very hmmm eventful. That seems like the best word to describe it. Where to begin...

On Tuesday, I woke up and went to work just like I had done on Monday. Granted, Monday night the Canes won the Stanley Cup so I was out with my boys celebrating. Will got a little crazy and thought it would be a good idea to run in the middle of the street throwing his shirt around. It was worth a good laugh.

Anyways, was going to work and my left side felt sore. It felt like your legs feel after running for the first time in 3 months. I didn't think anything of it and put it off as just waking up wrong. As the day went on the pain got more and more noticeable that I decided to call my mother.

Good ole momma...On the way back to work from my lunch break and talking to her, I passed out walking into the house while trying to get Jared's attention. As the good coworker he is, he sped me off to Rex and listened to me tell him faintly what was going on.

Got to the ER, my blood pressure was 77/43 and they rushed me back to stick needles in me. I hate needles....Let me repeat that. HATE NEEDLES. So they think I have Kidney stones but don't really know. Pain meds and antibiotics for now.

The rest of the week was interesting and the weekend was just crazy. I'm just trying to keep things real and have a good summer before 1L in August. They don't even have a McDonalds around the corner....

WHAT PLACE DOESN'T HAVE A McD'S?!?!

Phew...Sometimes You Gotta Just Trust the Big Man Upstairs.

So with all the stuff up in the air about my future, this is how I felt about stuff. But Tuesday, I came back to one of the things that always has been there and worked for me. Yup that's the Big Man upstairs.

I decided to revisit a passage that has always influenced my whole life.

Matthew 6:25-34

The Cure for Anxiety

25"^(A)For this reason I say to you, do not be ^(B)worried about your life, as to what you will eat or what you will drink; nor for your body, as to what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?

26"^(C)Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?

27"And who of you by being ^(D)worried can ^(E)add a single hour to his life?

28"And why are you ^(F)worried about clothing? Observe how the lilies of the field grow; they do not toil nor do they spin,

29yet I say to you that not even ^(G)Solomon in all his glory clothed himself like one of these.

30"But if God so clothes the ^(H)grass of the field, which is alive today and tomorrow is thrown into the furnace, will He not much more clothe you? ^(I)You of little faith!

31"Do not ^(J)worry then, saying, 'What will we eat?' or 'What will we drink?' or 'What will we wear for clothing?'

32"For the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things; for ^(K)your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things.

33"But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and ^(L)all these things will be added to you.

34"So do not ^(M)worry about tomorrow; for tomorrow will care for itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

So I took these verses and applied Matthew 6:7-12 to it. I don't know what tomorrow brings but I know Wednesday night I heard back from my contact at Campbell and she gave me great news. Pat gives this news a big thumbs up.

He'd give two but one hand is occupied at the moment.

So now that I know that I'm going to be a 1L at Campbell starting this August, I can finally start realistically imagining myself as a lawyer. I guess it was all dreaming before.

But I also realized that the Lord is in ultimate control over these situations and knows exactly when you need to be picked up or when you need to struggle to learn stuff. I was surprised by how big of a relief this was off of my chest.

But the Lord is good and I'm just working on trusting him with not only this but other stuff. I think a Socrates quote is applicable here.

"The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing."

I'm letting these situations and feelings go and letting the Lord take them on for me.

Again, millions of thoughts...

That's going to be a Campbell J.D. in 3 years.

Thoughts and Family

"I have always thought the actions of men the best interpreters of their thoughts."
- John Locke

Everyone has heard of this quote and consider it very true. There are other ones, "Actions speak louder than words." and plenty more. However, I think people still do not learn the lesson of the quote.

I at least have not. It seems with any relationship a person is in that they seek to believe and trust what the individual is saying to them. Even if the actions of the individual are telling them something completely different. Examples of this, in my opinion, can be found throughout various types of relationships whether with family, significant others, friends, or co-workers.

I've heard other quotes on a similar line of logic. They go something like...

- One's thoughts control one's mind. One's mind control one's actions.
- How and what you think about control your perceived reality.

hmm...

Random thought, but also something that has been getting at my mind.

This weekend, I went to Hickory for my Mamaw's 75th birthday and my cousin Jake's high school graduation. Overall, the weekend was amazing! I spent time with my cousins joking, teasing, and catching up on each other's lives. Also, got to go out to a nice golf course and try to act like I knew what I was doing.

Going out on Saturday to the course was probably the best round of golf that I have ever played. Somehow my cousin Pat Rhyne convinced them to let all of us go on together as a 6-some which was pretty sweet. Between talking junk to each other and playing practicle jokes we actually got some decent golf shots off. One of the funniest shots was when my brother was teeing off and the ball went 75 yards out, hit a rock and came back and hit the tee box marker and went 5 feet in front of him. Absolutely Hilarious!

Of course, I got my fair share of joking from my oldest cousin Chad who liked to unstrap my bag, watch me take off in the cart and watch my bag fall flat on the ground. Between that and the "Jono baby, give me some kooosies." haha

But this weekend did teach me how important family is to me. As Pat would say, "You can have everything but my wife and daughter, you're blood." Granted, there was drama just like any other family but overall just sitting there picking on each other will be some good memories.

Back from the NCGOP Convention

I just recently got back from the NCGOP convention and overall I'd say I had a very good time. You'd be surprised how many nice people can show up for an event like that. Granted, I was in the minority in terms of age but there were a few youngsters.

Looking back on the weekend, I realized how valuable networking is. Not only did I become friends with a few great people; I also had the opportunity to meet some pretty influential people. I don't want you to think that I am the "opportunist" type though. I enjoyed meeting these people just to really get a face to face impression of them. In my line of work, rumors float around and people get bad mouthed all the time. So it's nice to have a chance to form my own opinion outside of the rumor mill.

Another thing I realized was just how awkward some people are. It doesn't matter if you're a nobody or someone running to become a U.S. Congressman. Communication skills can make the difference from a person turning you off or staying engaged. I've come to realize the blessing I have in being able to communicate to people. I do think it's a matter of being comfortable with people and I guess I've always been a social butterfly. Ehhh I can't help it.

Overall though, the wonderful weekend was wonderful. Got paid to work, expenses paid, food paid, and got to talk with some good people. Now if only Campbell law school would call me.

Ahh the life as a college graduate and God Father!

Well, I finally graduated and I guess this should be exciting. I mean look at that face....looks excited to me.

It was a wonderful day for sure and an overall good weekend. I definitely love spending time with my family and having them all come together for whatever reason.

Though, I have to tell you. Seeing that diploma was the moment of truth when I really felt like an adult.

Moving on from graduation, I got to spend a good chunk of time with my siblings and baby niece.

I tell you, I never knew how much family meant to me until I saw that baby. Madelyn Anne Luck "Maddy" is one of the most precious things I have seen in my life. Even though she is only my niece, I still feel like she is the beginning of the next stage of my family.

My Sister told me that her husband and her had decided to ask me to be Maddy's God Father. This was a very emotional moment for me because of how much I look forward to being a parent.

I already am spoiling her and decided to buy her two little polo dresses at http://www.polo.com.

Well now its time to put a face with a name...She's adorable!

ok that's the "bad to the bone" look!

The Luck Family

Me and Maddy @ Graduation

I'm very envious of this picture.

Great Grandma Mamaw and the Grand pops.

Though, there was a lot of drama going on and family issues, overall I really enjoyed the weekend. I believe no matter how messed up your family is. You are stuck with them and they know you better than anyone else can. They can cause you the most joy and the most stress but in the end they are the most important people in my life.

And I mean how can you say "no" to this adorable girl? She is my precious God daughter.